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Sexual Satisfaction Can't Be Guessed: How to Talk About Desire, Boundaries, and Pleasure Differences

One partner tends to use penetrative sex as the main form of intimacy, assuming that as long as it lasts long enough and the frequency is stable, the other partner will naturally …

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One partner tends to use penetrative sex as the main form of intimacy, assuming that as long as it lasts long enough and the frequency is stable, the other partner will naturally be satisfied. The other partner often doesn't reject it, but the ways that actually bring consistent pleasure are rarely mentioned, let alone proactively asked about. So one partner is "doing more" while the other is "holding back from speaking up," and both feel like they are...

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