The Trash Can That Got Spilled Three Times: What's Really Inside?
At 11 p.m., someone just finished washing dishes and turned to see the trash bag they had asked to be taken out still sitting there, the bag open with a faint smell. 'Why hasn't t…
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At 11 p.m., someone just finished washing dishes and turned to see the trash bag they had asked to be taken out still sitting there, the bag open with a faint smell. 'Why hasn't the trash been taken out?' they asked. The other person on the sofa, eyes on their phone, replied, 'I just finished.' Those four words made the dishcloth crash into the sink.
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At 11 p.m., someone just finished washing dishes and turned to see the trash bag they had asked to be taken out still sitting there, the bag open with a faint smell. 'Why hasn't the trash been taken out?' they asked. The other person on the sofa, eyes on their phone, replied, 'I just finished.' Those four words made the dishcloth crash into the sink.
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